Baby Sweetness

The girls have been so sweet lately. Yesterday morning Evelyn crawled into bed with us, Rowan was sleeping snuggled between Andre and myself, having crawled into our bed sometime during the night. Evelyn looked at her and said, "I love my Ro-Ro," then she gave her a sweet kiss on the cheek.

They've been talking a lot more too. Using full, coherent sentences. While looking through the Pottery Barn catalog the other day, Rowan pointed to a picture of a little girl with curly hair and said, "That look like eww, Evey." She was right, it did look just like Evey.


They have their own opinions too--about everything. For Halloween this year, Rowan picked out an Elmo costume to wear. We took the girls trick or treating and when the homeowner opened the door, Rowan would proudly say, "I'm Elmo."

Evelyn decided she wanted to be a pink Pegasus/unicorn. She picked the costume out of a magazine and we ordered the last one in the largest size available. It was adorable, but too small. Her Mimi (grandmother) deconstructed it and made a new pink bodysuit. She was very cute. Unfortunately, it was hard to see the top of the head of the unicorn and so people continually commented that she was a very cute "fying pig."




Of course in our family, one costume is never enough. So the girls also had Disney princess costumes. Rowan picked Snow White--her favorite character who she calls, "High Ho." And Evelyn picked Cinderella--her favorite who she calls "Princess." Its amazing how much more detailed costumes are nowadays compared to what they looked like when I was a kid. The girls Disney princess dresses were beautiful. Granted, we'll never be able to get all the glitter out of the house, but they are beautiful.





Interest-wise, Evelyn still appears to be most drawn to music. My dear friend, Janet, gave us her piano that I remembered playing as a child. Evelyn will sit at the piano and her playing around actually sounds melodic. She can keep a beat too.




Rowan's love is animals. She feeds the dogs, plays with them, orders them around, and on several occasions I have found our new dog, Murphy, sleeping at the end of her bed. Oh and "Daddy." Rowan is a total Daddy's Girl. She'll say, "Evey belongs to Mommy and Ro Ro belongs to Daddy."

The Beach

I remember the first time I went to the beach. I was eleven. I wanted to run out into the waves like a movie star. The sand and the waves got in the way and I ended up fumbling my way to the water.

I would spend the next 5 years in a beach town and return again in my late teens. Long enough to create many new memories of the beach. It is a place that is different at different times in your life. Now, I sit on the beach and I listen to the soothing sound of the waves crashing and I feel the breeze blow. I tell myself to let go of all my stress and worries and relax for a change. I watch my babies play in the sand.

The beach wasn't always this way. There was time it was quite the party place. I remember cars lined all the way down and all the pretty girls walked slowly down the beach talking to the surfer boys and drinking whatever mixed concoction they had with them. I miss the ability to wear those swim suits, but that's about it. There is a time and place for everything.

The babies loved the beach. They ran into the water and then back onto the shore, laughing and screaming. Rowan would spot a group of sea gulls and walk ever so slowly up to them until she got really close and then she'd run and scream and they'd all fly away at once.


The beach wasn't the only bit of fun we had. Andre's mom is in town from Bolivia. The girls ran to her as if no time had passed. I tell you, they can spot a person ready to spoil them. Truly, they adore their Abuelita.

We were also able to celebrate Ivette, Isabella, and Little Austin's birthday. Isabella and Austin have grown so fast its amazing. They are wonderful children and are becoming more beautiful and sweet every year.

Ivette is doing really great too. She has inspired me to work out. Unfortunately, it only lasted one trip to the gym. Perhaps Thanksgiving will refresh my resolve to get in shape. Ivette and Austin are always fun to be around. We stayed up late laughing and talking. We even saw Moon too.

The Twins 1st Camping Trip

I grew up knowing that the land would one day belong to me. This huge stretch of wilderness. I remember hunting for arrowheads as a kid there. The Keechi Indians left a fair share behind. I remember the old windmill and the well that never went dry.

My grandmother told my father he should buy it. "Land--God isn't making any more of it," she would say. So he did. The best investment he ever made. They lived on some land nearby a long time ago. He inherited the other part from my grandfather. I heard a story that my grandmother had acquired some land through adverse possession; although I'm not sure which land that is.

I try to picture Old Juantia (as my dad would call her) boiling a pot of water to wash clothes out there. "She thought the washing machine was the greatest invention in the history of mankind," my dad said. The house they lived in is just a chimney now. I try to imagine her living there with her kids. No wonder she was such a tough woman.

"The land," was always a source of conversation for my dad and I. "Have you been out to the land?" "How's the land doing?" Along with various tales of wild animals, mineral leases, hunters, and other land-related topics. When I told him I'd never sell it and would leave it to my children, his eyes filled up with tears and he hugged me and said how much he loved me. I meant it too. I love it as much as he did.

So it was with great joy that we took the girls on their first camping experience to the land. There are two parcels roughly the same size. One will belong to Rowan. It is Rowan's Ranch. The other will be Evelyn's Ranch.

Rowan was so excited. She kept repeating, "Ro-ro's Ranch." Then turning to Evelyn and saying, "Evey, No. Ro-ro's." We'd say, yes, but Evelyn has a ranch too.

Rowan's is really beautiful. At night we could hear the coyote's hallowing. At one point they seemed a little too close. All through the night I kept waking up thinking I could hear some animal right outside the tent. Was it a wild pig? A coyote? Maybe a bobcat? No one else stirred, even our dog who slept a little too soundly.

The stars were amazing out there. You could see the Milky Way so clearly. I had forgotten how brilliant they are.

The next day we drove to my father's grave. I miss him so much. I kept thinking how I'd like to tell him that we camped on the land with the girls. How I heard a pack of coyotes. How Rowan was saying its her's with such pride.

The Girls

Andre took this great picture of the girls tonight. We went out for dinner. The girls played outside on the playset and we listened to two guys playing guitar. It was a great night and the first somewhat cool night. Or rather it was the first less than blistering hot night, a pleasant 80 degrees.

They look so big in this picture with their long legs. They're almost 2 1/2 now.

Spending Time

This is me as a kid.

Replace the cocker spaniel puppies with twin girls and this is me as a mom. They are infinitely cute and huggable. They are at a delightful age too. One in which you can smother them with kisses and they giggle and kiss you back and say things like, "i luv uuuu mommie."

In my professional life, I get to work with a lot of disgruntled teenagers (and quite a few disgruntled adults), so I'm well aware that one day the girls will be like so totally cool that like they can't exactly say "I love you mom" in front of their totally awesome friends because like that's not cool, you know.

And I know that time will pass by quickly. So you just make the most of it.

At the grocery store the other day I bought some play dough for the girls. Play dough is the most cost effective toy ever. It costs maybe $2 dollars and its an endless source of fun and creativity.

Of course the girls immediately wanted to make the giant play dough ball of mixed colors. I began to say, "don't mix the colors!" and I caught myself. "Don't mix the colors"? Why not? It costs two dollars. Play dough is not a special commodity in any economy, even ours. So instead I took out fun kitchen utensils and let them mash it through garlic presses and roll it with the rolling pin and tried to not think about how it was now all mixed together and...completely ruined.

I wonder what our time would be like if I didn't work, if I was home with them all day. I miss them when I'm working and admittedly I sometimes let them stay up past their bedtime because I'm not ready to say goodnight.

Yet, the time we do spend together is really full. Maybe it wouldn't be that way if I was home all the time. Maybe taking care of them would become work, a chore that had to be done. Being in toddler-land I'd soon forget the disgruntled teenagers I once worked with and everything would be Dora, and Blues Clues, and the Wiggles. Insanity would surely follow that lineup.

Maybe we have a good balance right now. They can be independent and play with new friends and learn new things, then come home to kisses and hugs and snuggles. And I can be reminded that it will all change too fast and appreciate the time we have.

Being sick is no fun

Evelyn had the worst weekend last week. It all began when she dropped the lid of our heavy furniture trunk onto her index finger. The nurse at the hospital told us it was a toddler rite of passage, but it was nevertheless frightening. Her little finger looked deformed and immediately began to swell. Oh and she cried like I've never heard her cry before.

We met Andre at the Children's Hospital where they x-rayed her and applied a tiny splint. Turned out not to be broken, just bruised and we still had time to make it to the circus. Yes, I know normal people would have gone home after that.

To be fair, the tickets were rather expensive and bought months and months in advance so that the girls could get really good seats. And they were good seats. If the tightrope walker had fallen we would have been hurt by the fall, they were that good. Plus, leaving the hospital, she seemed in good spirits.

She loved the opening show. Rowan was so excited she was dancing in Andre's lap. Never have you seen two more wide-eyed circus goers. It is the way the circus is suppose to be watched: full of wonder and awe.

You lose that sense of wonder as you get older. I couldn't help comparing it to Cirque du Sole and prior circus shows. Was this as good? The awesome eventually becomes expected.

About half way through Evelyn fell asleep in my arms. She even slept through people being shot out of a cannon. However, she had missed her afternoon nap, plus she had been given a pain reliever for her injured finger. She awoke long enough to see the tigers, the elephants, and to buy a plastic circus horse, then she feel asleep again.

As we left she began to complain about her belly hurting. Sometime in the night she had a fever that was pushing 104 and started to vomit. We spent most of the night on the phone to the nurse and trying to make her as comfortable as possible until we could get her in to the pediatrician in the morning.

Finally, after a full week--three doctor visits, two shots, and an antibiotic prescription later, she's back to her old self. Even her finger is healed. We took the girls out for hamburgers, ice cream, and playground fun. She was having such a great time, its hard to believe she was so sick.

Now, I try not to be an overly protective parent. A "helicopter parent" as I've heard them called, who hover over their children guarding their every move. I want them to grow and experience and try new things without fear. Without my fears at least.

And I don't want to be dramatic either. A smashed finger and an illness that can be cured in a week are not big deals in the grand scheme of things. Yet tonight, watching my husband and my two daughters playing together I was overcome with the feeling that these three people are my life and really how grateful I am to be watching them play in the park tonight.

Things to Do

In the movie, Big Fish, there is a scene in which Ewan McGregor's character says, "They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops. And that's true. What they don't tell you is that once time starts again it moves extra fast to catch up."

That's where we are now. It is a wonderful time in our lives, but its going by so fast.

Andre is really great about making the most of every day and I think we probably stay busier than most people. Certainly most people with twin toddlers. Some people may even argue that we should stay home more and get chores done. But this blog entry isn't about what my sister would say, its about all the fun things to do with kids right here in Austin.

Here are just a few suggestions for places to eat and places to go.

There two great places to take kids for burgers. The first is Freddy's Place. They have a nice playground with tables close enough to catch your child if they fall off the slide. Plus, they usually have some pretty good live music.

The other is Phil's Icehouse. They have great burgers, including mini sliders, plus Amy's Ice cream is right next door. Both places open out onto an awesome playground. We took these pictures there.


If you can't agree on what to eat, try south park meadows. Everyone can order something different from one of the several restaurants then enjoy a massive playground. The downside to this is that its so big and there are so many people, you've gotta keep a close eye on the kids (unless they're older).

Or if you want to eat out of the grocery store, you could always try Central Market North. Their playground is well shaded and relaxing for adults.

Parkwise, there are loads of great parks here. Some good spots to take the kiddo's: the fountains at the Liz Carpenter Fountain in Butler Park (by the Long Center). There are flat dancing fountains designed for kids to play on.

Andre loves Barton Springs, which has both a park and playground and snow cones and a train. You can rent canoes too, or just sit and watch the ducks.

I would also recommend our local zoo. Its a small zoo and is actually an animal sanctuary. Next to the enclosures are signs with the animal's story and how they came to the zoo. They have a lion that was confiscated from a drug dealer, another that was a junk yard guard, parrots that have outlived their owners, and even a very large tortoise found on the side of the road.

They currently have the most amazing white, black and red, vulture that is a must see. The girls love the petting zoo and feeding the goats.

My Aunt Robin said, you should try to make memories with your kids, not just spend time with them. Hopefully we're doing a good job.

4th Annual Fishing Trip

I've had a difficult time updating this blog lately. I've been busy sure. But if I'm really honest with myself, the real reason is I've just been sad. It seems like I miss my dad a little more every day.

Even as I write this I can hear him saying, "Life is for the living." The thing about people who repeat themselves is that when they're gone you still remember what they said.

Needless to say, much has happened over the past few weeks. The girls experienced their first beach. Complete with waves, sand, seashells, and...saltwater? No, no saltwater. We took them to Wisconsin on the great lakes, which are so "great" that they have waves and sandy beaches just like the ocean. You almost forget its not the ocean until a duck waddles by.

The girls were initially frightened of the waves. They timidly dipped in a toe, then another one. Legs, then arms, then splashing in the water. Then they decided they should just take off all their clothes and jump in.

They giggled so much, as if the beach and the water and the waves were made just for them. And although I didn't really want them to get completely soaked like that, it didn't seem right to interfere with this first experience that was so joyful. So I let them romp around until they were ready to go and we changed them into dry clothes and shook the sand out of their shoes.

We spent our trip on the peninsula of Wisconsin, in Bailey's Harbor. It is a lush green, vacation spot with cafes, shops, and tourists. It's like a fishing village designed by Pottery Barn. Every storefront is picturesque, sailboats line the harbors, and all the people are in vacation-mode...or at least we were. Even the farms are beautiful, with big red barns, and large white farmhouses.



This was our 4th annual fishing trip with our very good friends. The fishing group had a new member this year, Baby Jocelyn, who is just 6 month old. She is such a great baby and so beautiful. I just wanted to hold her all the time, but anytime I picked the little cutie up the girls started crying. They were so jealous. I guess its no more kids for Andre and I. But give it another year or two and Jocelyn with be their partner in crime, I'm sure.

Of course a fishing trip is not complete without fishing. So we chartered a fishing boat one day. The kids spent the afternoon with Rachel's mom and aunt who drove in to watch them while we were gone. I had never chartered a fishing boat before, so I didn't know what to expect.

One guy drove the boat to the best fishing location, then the other guy put lures on the fishing lines, lowered them into the water with weights--about 12 fishing poles at once. They would watch the lines and when one jerked they'd yell, "FISH ON!" then the next in line would reel the fish in. The guy would unhook it, weigh it, and throw it in a freezer. At the end of the trip he even filleted them. It was more like "reeling," than it was "fishing," which is great in my book. Everyone caught a fish (mostly king salmon), which we brought home with us. We will be eating salmon for the next month.

The girls really enjoyed the trip. We drove there, which truthfully worried me since its a 2 1/2 day trip, but it turned out great. We took long breaks driving on the way, stopping at parks, playscapes, and even an indoor jump castle place. Our new minivan's dvd player was also great. Once there, the girls had tons of toys with them, their big stroller, etc., and we had room to bring back all that salmon we caught. Coming home we spent the 4th of July at my Aunt Ann's house, with my other aunt and uncle, cousins, mom, and grandmother. So it was a good trip all around.

Happy Father's Day

Father's Day 2010 from Leigh on Vimeo.

Joey

I came home Sunday night to find our dog, Joey, laying on the tile in the kitchen. There was something unnatural about the way he was lying on the floor, about the way he didn't jump up to greet me.

He looked the way a person does when they collapse. He was laying in his own urine. His hind legs stretched to one side in a way a dog does not lay. He looked up at me with large, sad eyes. Poor Joey.

He had been laying around more than usual on the days leading up to Sunday night. He had always had hip problems. Just an old arthritic dog, so when I found him that night I thought it had to be his hips.

I called my friend who's a vet and she instructed me to make him comfortable until I could take him into the vet.

That night I cleaned him up as best I could and gently moved him onto his dog bed. With a wet rag I gently wiped his face, his legs, his head. I thought of my dad in the ICU on a ventilator and the time I rubbed his hands with lotion; looking for some way, however minor, to ease the pain. I thought of all the times I had sat next to him petting his head and telling him he was my "baby dog."

Andre came home early in the morning and together we lifted him into the car. The first thing we discovered was that it was not his hips at all. They were, at most, an unrelated problem. It was his abdomen that was causing the real problems. His pale white gums were a sign of a problem with his spleen, but there were other possibilities too. X-rays, blood tests, tick tests, and finally they recommended that we take him to the pet hospital to stay in ICU. Perhaps he had leptospirosis. He was started on intravenous antibiotics immediately, with another dose ordered for 8 hours later.

He seemed to perk up as Andre transported him to the animal hospital. He called me happy and hopeful saying that maybe Joey just needed the antibiotics, that he was doing much better, maybe it would all be okay afterall.

When he called back an hour or so later, I knew by the sound of his voice that his hopes had fallen short. Joey was not going to be okay after all. The vet had tried to draw some fluid from his abdomen and the syringe was nothing but blood. They believe he had a tumor on his spleen that ruptured. He's an old dog for surgery, and besides, the vet said, it is likely to be malignant. There was really nothing we could do.

Andre picked me up to say our goodbyes to our "baby dog." We pet him, and loved on him, and told him how wonderful he had always been, crying the whole time. Andre brought him an Arby's roast beef sandwich with extra cheese. Then the doctor gave him a sedative, then a shot that stopped his heart. And like a clock winding down, he let out one final snore and he was gone.

Freya, our German Shepherd, has been looking for him. Standing at the windows, or just staring blankly in the yard. I know exactly how she feels.

We buried him the next day on our friend's land out in Bastrop.

Joey was such a wonderful dog. He was more human than a lot of humans I know. He was sweet, gentle, and lovable. He would lay his head on your lap, or just lean against you. He was happiest eating and lying in the sun. Everyone who met him, loved him, as did we. He broke the stereotypes for pit bulls and was a breed all his own: a "pig-dog".

Video of Joey

Rosebud

As a child, I remember walking around my grandfather's land looking at the fallen walls of an old house and the place where a chimney once stood. My father would tell me that he had lived in that house when he was young, but it was hard to imagine a time in which the house stood upright. I asked him if a tornado hit it, but, "no, it was just old and fell."

Today, the Salvation Army took a truck load of odds and ends, the last remaining salvageable items from my father's house. Four investors came to look at the house and make offers. His fallen down place.

There is something about losing a parent that has made me feel like my childhood is completely over. I've been an adult for a long time, married with my own children, but there is a finality that I had not experienced before. All the memories that could ever be made are done. That's it. There will be no more new memories of my dad.

All the ones that I have are all the ones that I will ever have. And you hope that you spent enough time together, that you listened well, and asked all the questions you needed to ask--because there's no more answers either.

I walked around this old house while the movie of my childhood played in my mind. I stared at the cracks in the tiled floor and saw myself playing hopscotch across them. The tree house I once climbed in is now a stump in the yard. Everything smaller and insignificant, old and dilapidated. I wanted to explain to the investors that it was once a great place to live, but they don't care. They want a quick, cheap, fixer-upper.

I left the house and went down to the neighborhood park two houses away. The walk there was shorter than I remembered. All the houses in the neighborhood, all those kids I played with have grown and moved away. The fairytale playground equipment has been replaced with giant industrial playscapes, all bright and shiny. Cinderella's coach, the Old Lady in the Shoe's shoe--oh, and Little Miss Muffet's spider--are gone.

The house has been in a steady decline for a long time--years even. I asked him to move here, but "no, he was fine" that sort of thing. But it doesn't matter anyway. He would still be gone even if the house looked as new as the day he bought it. Time passes whether you notice or not.

Everything has changed. Changed places. Changed hands. The land I went to as a child now belongs to me, and one day, (sooner than I want to imagine), it will belong to Rowan and Evelyn.


These are some memories of my dad that I put together:

My Dad from Leigh on Vimeo.

Twins Turn Two

Last Saturday (April 10th) was the twins 2nd birthday. I stayed up until the wee hours of the morn making their cake and about 40 miniature cupcakes. The bottom layer was chocolate, the top was strawberry, and the cupcakes were those two plus white confetti. I made a homemade cream cheese butter cream, which I have to say is my favorite icing. Then I topped the cake with animal figures from the girl's nativity set.

Making the cake was a lot of work, and I could have bought one, but for me it was just one of those things I had to do. For as long as I remember, I imagined making my kids birthday cakes. We had a barnyard theme to go with the petting zoo and pony rides.

At one point Andre asked if the party was for the girls or for me...and honestly its hard to say. I mean, really, who doesn't love baby animals? Even my grandmother loved it. This little baby goat was only a week old and spent the entire time curled up in my grandmother's arms.Fry's Fun Farm supplied the petting zoo, complete with a baby donkey, and calf.

It was a big hit with all the children. The pony rides were only appreciated by the older kids. Evelyn and Rowan wouldn't go anywhere near the pony. They had plenty of other animals though: lots of little bunnies, ducks, chicks, a full grown rooster, and baby goats. They even had a little piglet that would squeal every time someone tried to pick him up. Fry's provided dry food as well so the kids to feed the little animals. At one point Rowan tried to feed Evelyn some.

We had quite a few kids at the party and a nice range of ages too. Andre had the local fire station bring a fire truck and they actually brought a ladder. The fire fighters were so nice, they brought two stuffed bears for the girls. Of course, the older kids were really excited to see a fire truck and get to climb inside.


And arriving just in time to enjoy the party, our friends Viki and Dale flew in from Canada to visit for a week. The girls really love them, as do we. Viki and I have been friends since we went to school together in England--maybe 9 years ago. It is so wonderful to share your life with great friends.




To top it off, our firefighter friend Ax gave the girls three of their very own chickens. "Nugget," "Dumpling," and "Drumstick" are the newest members of our family. They are a breed called silver laced Wyandottes.

Andre is so in love with them. He takes them out of their little cage everyday and lets them play in the yard. The girls like them too and say "my chi-ken," and point to them. Joey (our dog) is also very fond of the chickens and loves to stare at them while licking his lips. Andre keeps telling him, "No Joey, they're family", but I don't think he really cares.

Easter

A lot has been going on lately, but since everyone has to start somewhere, I might as well begin with Easter.

Early Easter morning, Evelyn walked into our room to jump into bed with us. This has been her habit lately, and as she climbed up I told her, "Evelyn, last night the Easter bunny came and he brought you lots of goodies." Her eyes grew big and round and she was smiling ear to ear. I grabbed her basket off the dresser and she immediately began tearing into candy and pulling out plastic eggs. Rowan followed shortly after and we soon had two toddlers pumped up on sugar and chocolate.

Of course, Rowan came in carrying her giant rabbit pinata. They sell them on the street and as we passed by Rowan pointed out the window and said "bunny," so we stopped and bought one. It was suppose to be for both of the girls, but as we set it in the back of the car Rowan quickly began pointing at Evelyn saying "NO," then pointing at the rabbit and saying, "MINE" and this "No-Mine," bit went on until Evelyn appeared to comprehend that the rabbit belonged to Rowan. Evelyn gave her a look that seemed to say, "fine whatever, keep your pinata," and from then on she'd only try to touch it if Rowan wasn't looking.

For the next several days Rowan carried the giant pinata everywhere and insisted on sleeping with it. Of course it took up the majority of her toddler bed, so we'd take it out once she fell asleep. Andre had a terrible time convincing her to go to school without it. We obviously couldn't crack it open--not with Rowan being so attached to it. So she loved on it for weeks, until it was almost losing an ear and I moved it to the garage.

Anyhow, the girls were full of chocolate and marshmallow peeps, so we dressed up and headed to church. It was a typical Easter sermon--rebirth, resurrection, etc. Exactly what one would expect on an Easter Sunday, but it made me really miss my dad for some reason.

After church, and after naps, we went to my sisters to celebrate with the family. We brought over a huge bag of cascarones (confetti filled into the shells of eggs). Typically you crack them on other people's heads, but the girls seem to have more fun cracking them on their own heads.

New Orleans

We had a little family vacation to New Orleans last weekend to celebrate Will and Bea's wedding. This is a picture of Jackson Square that I would like to take credit for, except I think Andre took it.

New Orleans is such a beautiful city, I really love it. After Katrina I remember hearing people say things like, "why rebuild the city if its just going to get hit again," and to me, it seems like these are people who have never been to New Orleans. It is a uniquely wonderful place.

The people are warm and friendly. People would stop us on the street to say how cute the girls are or ask if they're twins, we had a jazz musician play the "Itsy Bitsy Spider" for them on a trumpet. The weather was lovely, and everything was blooming. Walking down the french quarter, every house has wrought iron balconies with big green ferns draped out of canisters. I mean, its just so incredible. How could we not do everything in our power to support this lovely city? I walked around with Harry Connick Jr.'s voice singing, "Do you know what it means to miss New Orleans," in my head and thinking about how the city is like no other.

We brought my mom this time, and rented a little bed and breakfast suite--minus the breakfast called the 1822 Bougainvillea House. It was perfect. We had two large rooms, a kitchen, bath, and it opened out onto an enclosed garden. We could leave our back door open to let in the sunshine and the girls could run around the garden looking at flowers or for the cat that lived there. Plus, we were within walking distance of the French Quarter.

My mom was really helpful and we all enjoyed her company, especially the girls. It was nice to be able to do the trip as a family.




Friday began with coffee and beignets at Cafe Du Monde in the French Market. The girls ate all the powdered sugar off of them and then asked for more. Rowan ate one tiny part of beignet, but the rest was all sugar. Evelyn didn't even try--all she cared about was more sugar.


After Cafe Du Monde we all went to the New Orleans Zoo. Its one of the best zoos I've been to, second only to the Denver Zoo and Disney's Animal Kingdom (if that counts as a zoo). They have so many beautiful animals, and their habitats are large, natural looking places. You can see every animal has their favorite little toys and there are lots of interactive exhibits.

The girls got to feed the otters pieces of carrots and fish, which they of course went crazy over. Evelyn was especially thrilled. It was one of the few times I believe Evelyn was as crazy over the animals as Rowan was.



They also had a nice play area for the kids and a carousel. We took them on a carousel in Denver and they were both scared, but this time they didn't want to get off. Rowan insisted on riding the panda every time, but Evelyn kept wanting to change animals.

That night Andre and I went to the rehearsal dinner in a little bistro called bistro Maison de Ville that closed down for the party. We got to catch up with our friends Mike and Andee, and just laugh and have a good time. The meal was phenomenal--truly one of the best I've ever had.



Meanwhile, my mom took care of Rowan and Evelyn. They found a drawer full of Mardi Gras beads and party favors. The girls went crazy. Every toddlers dream come true. For the rest of the weekend they would walk around our room with layers of Mardi Gras beads.











The next day we started out with a walk through the French Market. Then we headed to the Aquarium, which is just beautiful. Its really nice for kids too. They have a whole section that is a huge play area for them.









Saturday night was the wedding. Andre left early since he was a groomsman, so my mom, the girls and I went for a light dinner, walk, and then let the girls play in Jackson Square. Then we all walked over to Artillery Park for the wedding. The park overlooks Jackson Square on one side, Cafe Du Monde on another and the Mississippi river on yet another. Down below the park are artists, street performers, and horse drawn carriages. For two people as in love with New Orleans as Will and Bea, I can't imagine a more perfect place to have a wedding.

This is a great picture of Will, Belen, Mike and Andee, at the wedding, but its missing Bea. The only picture I got of the happy couple is one of them dancing. I was having such a great time myself that I completely failed as a paparazzi. Bea looks gorgeous though and her dress was very pretty.


The reception was held at a hotel in the quarter. We sat with friends and talked about how much one should tip the server so that he would bring our drinks quickly. Apparently, someone (probably David) guessed the right amount because by the end of the wedding I was feeling like it had just begun. Before it was over everyone was given napkins and then Bea, holding a parasol, and Will led everyone around the room in a big procession--I believe is called a "second line dance." Everyone following behind were dancing and waiving their napkins. It was so much fun.

After the wedding, we headed out to some of the favorite bars of our friends. Andre soon discovered that he loves wearing a bow tie, especially untied and we sat around talking and laughing about a girl trying to flirt with a guy dressed as a pirate in front of the entrance to the bar and other such amusements. The bartender knew both Will and Bea and she handed them bottles of champagne. They walked back and forth from our bar and the one next door pouring champagne for people, being congratulated by everyone.

In New Orleans the bars stay open all night, and you can come and go with your drink. So I wasn't sure what time we finally left, its like Vegas that way--time is sort of irrelevant.

The next day we got up early, went for breakfast and headed home. On our way we stopped off at "the cajun village" in Sorrento. Its a replica of an Acadian Village, complete with their own, very fat, very large alligators.

My Little Pony

See you can have two kids, exactly the same age, doing exactly the same thing, yet they can each have a completely different experience. Ha!

This is Rowan and Evelyn at school today. They had Pony Picture Day. We were a little worried they wouldn't like the ponies after they refused to ride on one at the Renaissance Festival. However, we have ordered a pony to come to their birthday in a couple of weeks so we were hopeful they would have a change of heart.

Rowan seems to be having a good time. She so loves any animal. Her first laugh was at dogs playing and she walks around the house with her "babies" two little stuffed animals. She looks like a little Texan cowgirl.

Evelyn...not so much. She likes animals all right. She'll pet a cat, or pull on a tail, but I can just see her telling her teacher, "no way am I getting on that pony." What this new teacher doesn't realize is that Evelyn will never forget that she made her do it and will hold it against it her. Its true. She may only be two, but she doesn't forget anything.

Gardening

Evelyn was mowing the yard this morning with her toy mower. All the rain has made the grass green and long. Now that the weather is nice, the girls are wanting to be outside all the time.

They planted seeds last week in an indoor plant starter tray, so every day they want to water it and stare at the new sprouts. We have decided to create a little garden for the girls by the house in the former dog run. Inspired by the "Secret Garden," its their own little area to have tea parties and play.

It sounds weird that it was the previous owner's dog run, but the area is about 18' x 13' with a fence and gate around it. Its close enough to the house that you can see and hear the girls from the living room and kitchen. And its lightly shaded--a big plus in warmer weather.

We planted Tangerine Beauty, a trumpet cross vine, along the fence. Next, we will replace the grass with a soft Zoysia, install some nice plants along the borders, and some little garden statutes, a child size bench, maybe a little table set.

In another area of the yard, Andre is preparing to level the ground so he can install their new playscape. Its not "new" new. Just new to us, but its really nice and I know the girls are going to love having their own playset.

Playing Together

Here's a picture of Rowan and Evelyn playing this evening. This little stroller is for dolls, but they were taking turns pushing each other around the house in it, occasionally chasing the dogs.

They play so well together. It is one of the most wonderful things about twins--their ability to share, to play, and to think of one another. Sure there are times when it's "me" and "mine,"just like any toddler; but so often I witness them playing together in ways that other kids their age aren't doing yet.

I have read that small children will become attached to a transitional object--a doll, or blankie, or stuffed animal. It is something that makes them feel safe and happy. Yet for twins their transitional object is the other twin.

That being said,they don't always play so great with other kids. We took them to the park the other day and Rowan was very insistent that she was not going to let this little boy play on the playscape with her and Evelyn. Rowan stood at the stairs with Evelyn behind her, pointed her little finger at the boy and said, "no" in her cute baby voice.